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This is a true (enough) story. I really did spend a few months absolutely obsessed with a friend’s nonexistent professional writing. And I did text some pretty badgering messages about it, including some of the lines in this story, leading to a phone call I don’t remember. But I know she got the message from whatever was talking through me because after that my obsession went away and she made the writing real.

Carmen Cartterfield, in addition to being one of my dearest friends, is a brilliant therapist. We met during our master’s program in clinical mental health counseling, and even then she was seeing past our proscribed teachings to a deeper truth about humanity.

When we were colleagues, I sent clients to her when they had reached an edge I could no longer help with. I helped people come out of crisis; she helps people thrive.

When I have a friction point in my life, she’s on speed dial. When I write, she’s my preferred editor. She is honest and integrated and so in tune. And besides being a certified genius, she’s also one of my favorite people in this world.

She takes in everything she reads, witnesses, learns in supervision and in practice. Then she does what most people can’t, or don’t, or don’t even realize is possible: she sifts through everything - every experience of therapy, spirituality, relationship - and she finds the kernel of something real and valuable. Then she synthesizes them all.

And as of this week, she’s on substack, writing about it. So click that link to the expansion framework, and subscribe to her work. I am not exaggerating when I say I expect it to become enormously influential.

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